Relationships and Dating

Relationship Coaching to improve love, sex and dating



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Nicolas Aujula is a Dating and Relationship Expert, thats uses his deep understanding of Synastry and Relationship Coaching to help improve your love life. Whether you want to improve your dating choices, want to form a serious relationship, improve an existing relationship or deal with a break up/divorce, Nicolas will use his expertise as an accomplished therapist to inspire you, and guide you to your goals.

Many of us seek to understand the personality and mind of someone we are dating. Nicolas has an astounding amount of insight on interpersonal relations, and how they are affected by the influence of the heavens and psychology. He works with men and women from all walks of life. After all, we are are all looking for the same thing - a better dating life and a fulfilling relationship

Dating Coaching - Focuses on understanding your individual strengths and weaknesses in your current situation. The emphasis is on combating fears, determining your desires and formulating an action plan on how best achieve them. Through a combination of coaching, visualisation and practical steps to allow you move in the right direction. 

Hypnotherapy - An effective way to improve your confidence and over-come personal fears/blocks by changing the way you feel about past and future relationships in a deeply relaxed state that is 100% natural. It's a quick solution to allow you to release old emotional baggage to change your life today that will work on the core of your being to bring out your personal best.

Relationship Compatibility - can determine the kind of partners that are suited to your personality and needs based on the 12 personality types - Nicolas can reveal the inner psychological and personal workings of a person. Also discover how compatible you really are to help make more informed decisions. A must have for all daters. 

Nicolas’ practice is unique compared to conventional dating coaches, relationship counsellors or behaviour experts, as he can analyse the personality, mind-set, emotional make-up and outlook of any potential date or partner, without even meeting or seeing them. He doesn't need a picture. All that's required is the subject’s date of birth. It's really that simple.

How Nicolas Aujula can help with all your dating and relationship questions and problems

Date Forecasting - Are you looking to hit the dating scene? Currently meeting new guys or gals online, through speed dating or in your daily life? Rather than spend weeks and months trying to figure out the personality, desires and motivations of a potential partner, Nicolas can provide you with the insight you need to date confidently. All you need to know is the date of their birth.

Relationship Counselling - Nicolas can help you explore any problems or conflicts in your current relationship by comparing your birth charts, and determining how the planets are affecting your personality, mind-set and emotional expression. Also to help you find understanding in paving a positive way forward.

Dealing with a break up or divorce - A relationship break up can come with a range of emotions such as anger, fear, betrayal, low self-esteem, confusion and shock. You will work through what has just happened to identify the key emotions, repeative behaviors and ultimately where you need to get to. Once the key emotions and issues have been identified Nicolas, using Relationship Regression techniques to relive and release the source of these underlying emotions. This combined method can really help you with anxiety, low confidence, weight gain and everything in-between.

Style Advice - Being trendy yet comfortable is a must when approaching the dating scene. When you look and feel your best it shows on your face and in your interaction with others. Nicolas offers advice to help update your wardrobe. Allow him to reveal your magical sparkle.

What is Synastry?

The science of Synastry Astrology is the art of comparing any two people’s astrological birth charts to give insight into their relationship. It is a detailed study of how individuals interact, both with the heavens and with each other.

Most people are familiar with the idea of Sun Sign Compatibility. ‘Is a Virgo a good match for a Taurus?’ and so on. While these concepts can provide a bit of insight, they are massively simplistic, and overall unreliable. Synastry is much more intricate, and gives answers based on the precise time and place of your birth, which is by definition much more accurate than trying to make generalities about the lives of 1/12 of the population of the earth.

Your birth chart is a map of the sky and the prominent planetary energies in play at the time and place of your birth. Because of this, everyone’s birth chart is quite different. As each person is born under a different pattern of stars and planets, each personality is imprinted with different energies at birth. We react differently to different kinds of people, of course, and much of that difference is due to the different energies under which we were born. These energies will affect the way these people interact with the world, and with others.

For example, one of the most important aspects of romantic compatibility is the relationship between the Sun, Moon, Mars and Venus between both partners. When these influences are in harmony they promote physical and sexual attraction, emotional understanding, good rapport and compatibility. When they are in opposition, they can produce strife and emotional turmoil. By looking at factors like these amongst others, Nicolas empowers clients to date with insight and confidence. He can help you understand your own personality and that of your partner, and help you improve your interactions with them.

Synastry can help you understand someone else’s emotional needs - Any relationship will only be successful if it is based on fulfilling one or more needs for each party. Nicolas can help you determine your own needs and those of another, and help you find a way to balance both to make any relationship more harmonious and fulfilling for both partners.

Synastry may not stop fights, but it can make sure you fights actually resolve issues - Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. Fights can be a positive force, as they can cause us to understand and deal with things from our partners’ point of view. Only fights that keep occurring without resolving become unhealthy. Nicolas can help you gain an understanding of the way you, and your partner handle conflict, and help you find a way to do so appropriately. It isn’t about ‘how to win’, but about how to reach a solution where both parties feel satisfied.

Synastry can help improve your sex life - Sex is a vital part in any romantic relationship, and one of the fastest ways one can go wrong. Understanding your sexual compatibility and how planetary energies affect both partners, and predicting the ways these changing cycles match up or clash can help you understand each other’s behaviour and come together at the right times. Nicolas can show you how to recognise these natural relationship cycles, and use them to your mutual advantage.

Synastry can help you come to terms with your differences, and discover unexpected similarities - Nicolas can help you really understand your differences as people, and why you both do some of the things that you do. This sympathy will make a world of difference in making things that seem like incompatibilities into opportunities to adapt. An astrologer can help you find hidden facets of each other’s personalities and histories that will make your relationship stronger than ever.

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The Life Force Energy “The life force energy is the spirit that pervades all living things. It intertwines the energetic elements and links us with every other particle of life. It makes up everything that inhabits this universe" - Nicolas Aujula, Nov 2002

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Helping clients with Past Life Regression, Hypnotherapy, Astrology, Healing in UK and abroad in London, Los Angeles, New York, Birmingham, Manchester, Leicester, Bristol, Oxford, Windsor, Maidenhead, Reading, High Wycombe, Bracknell, Watford, Uxbridge, Slough, Bicester, Southampton, Bournemouth, Brighton, Newhaven, Hastings, Maidstone, Tonbridge Wells, Guildford, Basingstoke, Swindon, Gloucester, Bedford, Luton, Chelmsford, Cambridge, Northampton, Coventry, Hereford, London, Ruislip, Harrow, Hendon, Wembley, Willesden, Ealing, Acton, Chiswick, Hammermsmith, Richmond, Kingston, Wimbledon, Sutton, Fulham, Kensington, Chelsea, Hampstead, Finchley, Barnet, Stanmore, Edgware, Hillingdon, Greenford, Southall, Hounslow, Wandsworth, Putney, Twickenham, Teddington, New Malden, Enfield, Southgate, Chingford, Woodford, Tottenham, Wood Green, Walthamstow, Hornsey, Stoke Newington, Leytonstone, Ilford, Barking, Dagenham, Stratford, Westfield, Hackney, Islington, Camden, Camden Town, Westminster, Lambeth, Battersea, Bermondsey, Greenwich, Woolwich, Bethnal Green, Camberwell, Deptford,Lewisham, Bexley, Eltham, Brixton, Clapham, Clapham Junction, Catford, Sidcup, Streatham, Bromley, Croydon, Sutton, Canary Wharf, Oxford Street, Mayfair, Marylebone, Southwark, Highgate

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